How do you come into a Room?
How to give a child good self worth
If you want your child to come in with a quiet confidence & solid presence, the message they need from the parent is: Your Absence matters: When you are not there I really miss you.
Spending time & giving positive attention build’s confidence
When your child is with you try to ensure that all your interaction is positive and that you mirror out the good people they are. Ensure they know that their Presence matters by Stopping and Spending a little time with them, so they feel they are worthwhile people and they feel lovable.
Ensuring that your child knows that their Presence makes a difference and that their Absence also makes a difference give a child a sense of Belonging. They feel they belong to a home & to a family & that they are Loved, not for what they do, but for who they are.